Happy birthday to my big brother Mark!…He would have been 68 today…Reminds me of sitting in the hot tub with him in our mid 20’s…Mark says, “Steve you have grown up to be such a special person”…I ask, “How so?” Mark says “Growing up, you were so competitive, always trying to beat me at everything”. I replied, “I was trying to be as good as you, because I thought my big brother was so great… I wanted to be just like you!”…What a revelation for both of us…Perception and communication is everything…